How much is too much ?

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How much is too much ?

rosanna Reyes (2 posts)– Mar 23, 2026 11:50 · 0 upvotes

Hi ! I am posting this here, because I need some feedback. So... thre is this man who writes an email, asking questios about me, my languages, my likes and dislikes... well... chitchat that I answer, because my intention with free emails is to figure out what the person really wants, his kinks and fetishes, in order to make the phone call more pleasant and more to the point for him.
But he goes on and on into one sentence emails, like "are you ready for the call?" and this goes on up to 50 free emails, and I have finally told him that I am not going to answer more emails..
What are your thoughts about this ? Is it already time to start charginf for the answers ??
Thank you. I feel I am being taken for a ride ...

rosanna Reyes (2 posts)– Mar 23, 2026 13:01 · 0 upvotes

Not only that, but also... the system calls me to ask whether I will take a 20 minute call that this person is trying to book, and I say "yes" and nothing happens... and the system calls again , and again, and again...
Is this a new fetish that I didnt know about ? called "make PSO Goon?

Princess Ivy NO LIMITS SLUT (9 posts)– Mar 23, 2026 13:49 · 0 upvotes

Stop replying. If he wants to call you he will!!

SusyQ En Español (2 posts)– Mar 23, 2026 14:12 · 0 upvotes

I felt guilty but I will do it.

Arabella Siren (1 post)– Mar 23, 2026 19:11 · 1 upvote

He’s edging you for free, and he gets off on it.

RAVISHING RACHEL ROSE 🌹 (2 posts)– Mar 24, 2026 05:56 · 0 upvotes

You are absolutely being taken for a ride. It doesn't take 50 free emails to plan for a call. He sounds like a time waster.

Greg Gmoney (7 posts)– Mar 29, 2026 13:53 · 0 upvotes

I see that pso’s have responded. I’d like to give you this callers prospective. I totally agree with the girls responses. That person is taking advantage of your generosity. As a caller I do like to message before calling. Even if I have called that pso several times. Here is why, one, is the pso actually on and paying attention to her account? Some stay on all the time but really aren’t taking calls. If they aren’t paying attention to their account how can I expect them to pay attention to me on the call?? Two., it gives the pso a little insight for what I’d like on the call. Three, are we compatible? It’s ok if we aren’t. That’s why a message can go a long way. Once I message I understand that a reasonable amount of time should be given for a response. If you are online I think 10 minutes for a first response is reasonable and fair.

I understand pso might charge to read their message back to me. I generally won’t pay for that and I move on. I believe within one or two messages from me and a response or two from the pso is plenty to understand what I want from the pso. Then it’s time to make the call.

I will sometimes message when the pso is offline just to let them know I’d like to make a call and let them know my availability. They can respond whenever and hopefully set up a call time.

I hope this helps you and any pso reading this. I appreciate what all you ladies do here. Whether it’s my kink or not it’s great to come here and enjoy all the offerings! I hope you get a lot of calls! I truly root for each and every pso here! Have a great day!

Jenny Talia (2 posts)– Mar 31, 2026 14:23 · 2 upvotes

I think we've all experienced this. It's nice hearing a caller's perspective. Also, nice that you acknowledged that he's taking her for a ride and that we call the shots when deciding enough is enough. It makes what we do more fun when there's a mutual appreciation of some sort, it sounds like you already know that. ;) So, thank you.

Michael Diefenbaker (4 posts)– Apr 06, 2026 03:25 · 0 upvotes

I totally get this - I generally keep my emails to 1 or 2 before a call but may have been guilty of 1 to 2 more if I'm trying to confirm my vibe is understood. I also have dealt the other way with operators saying they are down with my fantasy, which is well laid out, and then not having any idea when the call starts.

Violet Skye (9 posts)– Apr 07, 2026 20:28 · 0 upvotes

I like emailing a little bit to get to know someone. I am really uncomfortable with cold calls unless they are a regular. I am working on that. Everyone was a stranger once, right 🤭🤭 and I met one who has changed my life. Anyways, I email a little then flat out say yes or no. Sometimes the vibe isnt there. If they persist with emails, I just ignore them. Eventually they get the hint. Sometimes a guy will email me "why did you block me?" Like sweetie... you know why 🤣🤭but we can't block emails 🙄 some girls automatically charge 25 or 50 cents per email. It will add up! xoxo good luck 💕💕